Saturday 25 July 2015

Traditional vs Dudes

Now the conventional method of finding right partner is  changed.Once women are not allowed to go out and completely depend on parents. Recent development in education and financial improvement empowers women to choose by their choice. At the same time earning opportunities in young age makes the new generation to take bold decision in life. This is   somewhat good, but mostly leads to middle life crisis.

 Life is a return journey, we have to live fulfilled before our ticket confirmed. 
Did,so called modern development gives peaceful and fulfilled life ?
Or the conventional method is the secured way of living ?

Modern development gives education, money and way for materialistic enjoyment. Choosing a partnership materialistically will fulfill the senses but in heart of  love ? 

The modern method called it as other part. The conventional system name it as soulmate.

Life partnership is to fulfill the soul or sense ?

This is an interesting analysis of Traditional Vs  Dudes.

This is can be easily compared with first row bench guys vs Last bench row guys
There is difference in loving first bench row guys and last bench row guys. This may be even called as guys with traditional thoughts vs guys with modern thoughts.
First bench row guys are the ones who are too keen at studies, sincere, dedicated and hard working. 
These being called so traditional type
Last bench row guys are the ones who lethargic, cool, try to be sophisticated, lazy, active at sports and entertaining activities. These being called so dude type.
It doesn’t mean that this bench clarification will tell you how intelligent the guy is.
It only describes the characteristics.
When you date a dedicated soft hearted guy as in first bench, you could gain commitment for the relationship; they close the loop with being honest to you. They will do any compromises and sacrifices for the love they have it with you. They never flirt or try to have much girlfriend around when they are in relationship with you. They could earn, have responsibility over their shoulders to take care of you as a possessed property. It is very safe to be with such kind of guys. But what you will miss that you will gain in the last bench guys are un restricted freedom, independency to be yourselves, no too much care or possessiveness, you can able to take daring decisions with support of him, you learn things by yourselves when you are not fully under a guardianship.
Generally the cool dudes, who are not sincere to academics as in last benches, try to always hang around, have and enjoy their lives. It is good to be with cool dudes, where in you will feel rejuvenated, rather than being more responsible and mechanic.
They do not have pyscho love with insecurities and fear born with them. 
Dude guys love themselves a lot which they need self-pace for their own habits and enjoyment.
It is doubtful to think would they sacrifice certain things on love towards their companion, rather they would make the girl change themselves according to their behaviours and life style.
All in all, in a relationship with traditional guy, he tends to adjust adapt sacrifice things for us.
Where as in a dude relationship, the gal has to modify herself to be with him. Only the gal can sustain a relation if she enjoys with change in life style.
As the name suggests dude relationship is more modern that it tends to get break or weaken whenever there is dispute or selfishness, financial insecurities, lack of faith and lots so over.
Where a traditional guy is holds the relationship to a greater extent as our parents did in our older period. As the time moves over as modernity prevails, relationships become weak with individual thoughts and perspectives predominating. However modernism is more attracted to a dude guys than the former.
The journey of life varies with type of person you live with. It is always good to go for a guy who is moderate in characteristics between a traditional guy and dude guy.

Its on the choice of person seeking for partnership. Whether he needs a soulmate or other part.

Life is beautiful ; Just go ahead.




1 comment:

Akshaya RN said...

nice article. but how can you say last bench people are not intellectuals. I am a last bench student. now a days even arranged marriages are troublesome,choosing a campanion by own,one should be very careful. After break ups or divorce a man easily shift to another girl, but for women its not so easy...still india conventional in this matter.
soulmate or otherpart ? its one luck to get a soulmate. Becoz the world running towards otherpart only...do deep analysis n write